1. You are not incomplete or less blessed just because you are not married11. You may be desiring love so much but don’t get too excited when someone new gives you attention. Tame your expectations. Discern
12. When you do find someone real and true and who is serious about you, be loveable, let your guard down. Yes, you have been single and independent for a while but allow yourself to need someone. Love is finally here
13. If you have never known love, remember love exists
14. Don’t feel sorry for yourself, drinking yourself silly, having sleepless nights and developing ulcers; this will make you unattractive and emotionally difficult to be with thus pushing people further away from you
15. Learn to stand your ground when your parents and relatives pressure you into marriage. Don’t get married for them
16. The more you age as you approach your mid-life, the more sexually aggressive and assertive you will become. Make wise sexual choices
17. Don’t put your life on hold just because you don’t have a spouse. Invest, build your empire, travel, get that PhD, form your organisation, touch lives; live to the max
18. As you grow, your need for companionship will grow. Don’t give audience to time wasters, you are too grown for games and for married people who want to cheat on their spouse’s with you
19. If you are a single parent, remember your children will move out soon. Prepare for life after they move out
