Love Locked Down is from a his and hers perspective and they narrate their experiences from different viewpoints. While Okyeame Kwame talks about issues from a secular and masculine perspective, Annica comes at it from a religious and female perspective.
Some of the topics the book discusses include crucial conversations before you say ‘I do’, why are you getting married?, sex before marriage, making and managing money as a couple, conflict and resolution, religious differences, keeping things hot with romance, sex and intimacy and so much more.
“One of the key things we do at the end of each chapter is to provide a worksheet for people, we encourage them to evaluate what they’re experiencing. There are critical conversations to have at the end of every major chapter.
“Another interesting fact to know is that we don’t agree on all the things; for instance, I disagree that the man is the head of the family but Annica agrees, I believe in sex before marriage but Annica doesn’t,” Okyeame Kwame said.
Although a number of high profile marriages have crashed, creating the perception that celebrity marriages don’t last, marriages like that of Okyeame Kwame and Annica are inspiring and it is not surprising that the couple have said some celebrities have sought advice from them over time.
“Yes, we have some celebrities asking us for advice on their issues, some before they get married and others who are still married. Others have even engaged me in the comments section of some of my posts. But most importantly, Annica gets a lot of young ladies asking for advice in her inbox and we realise that many people are struggling in their relationships,” Okyeame Kwame said.
While writing the book, which they went through with a fine-tooth comb, the couple said they fell in love all over again. “We reminisced over many things and it brought back many memories we had forgotten. We revisited things we had said we would do but hadn’t gotten around to doing. It brought back warm feelings we fell in love over again,” Annica disclosed.
At the end of the day, what Okyeame Kwame and Annica hope people will take away from the book is a sense of liberation. “I’m hoping it will truly give them the liberation I have, to know that they cannot be pressured into anything. If you feel liberated, you will not bow to societal pressure and you can do things at your own pace and you can live life on your terms,” Annica said.
Okyeame Kwame added, “I hope they understand that you are not the half of anybody. As a being, you’re complete, powerful and resourceful and your happiness is in your hands. Your partner is also a complete being and once you come together and you accord him/her the respect you have for yourself, you will free yourself of depression or anxiety.”
Love Locked Down will be launched on Saturday, May 15, at the Ecobank Headquarters Auditorium at Ridge in Accra. It will be in two sessions with the first one from 4 to 6 p.m and 7 to 9 p.m.
